Die 1:5 Regel kenne ich vom Kindererziehen @Mosquito.
Das man weniger meckert und mehr lobt.
Zum Üben und zur Selbsterziehung hat man dann 10 Murmeln (oder Klicker) in der einen Hosentasche die dann im Laufe eines Tages auf die andere Seite wandern sollen.
Auf einen Kritikpunkt soll man idealerweise 5 mal mit einem Lob reageren, um für eine Balance zu sorgen.
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The sea
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