Nachtrag:
Man braucht einen langen Atem, immer am Ball bleiben, Durchsetzungsvermögen (das man nur das miteinander tut, was und wie man es selbst möchte).

Vielleicht ist auch etwas Glück dabei, aber das glaube ich weniger. Mit jeder "Nicht-Date"-verabredung lernt man etwas über sich selbst und über den Andern.

Sei es, dass man den Text anpasst, oder dass man beim ersten Treffen Dinge anders erzählt... aktive Verabredungen finde ich da wesentlich einfacher als nur da sitzen und Tee trinken.

Vor allem wenn es ein "Nicht-Date" wird... bei einer Wanderung hat man dann wenigstens Sport mit noch jemandem gemacht.
Weniger nutzlos, weniger enttäuschend.

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···································Man verschlafe ruhig die Hälfte des Lebens,
················································man wird die andere doppelt genießen.

······················································Schleich (Schriftsteller)


····························· ›› The sea

·····························Flocking to the sea
·····························Crowds of people wait for me
·····························Sea gulls scavenge
·····························Steal ice cream
·····························Worries vanish
·····························Within my dream
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·····························I left my soul there
·····························Down by the sea
·····························I lost control here
·····························Living free
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